[I'm going to try to post something on the blog every friday iA!]
This week’s installment:
I mentioned a few blogs ago an interesting party where we Mozlim wommyns discussed what each of us found attractive in a guy. There were about 15 girls of all ages…ranging from 18 to 30+, a few married, a few engaged, and somehow this topic came up in a teasing way about some comment or other, but then we ended up going around taking turns one by one saying what we found attractive in a guy! (yes i know veryy weeird, but it was just hilarious and horridly fascinating at the same time)
So for the benefit of Muslim brotherkind I’ll try to recall some of what was said. This is rephrased and totally made up. Some were the same girl, and I switched around the married/engaged to confuse everyone a bit. Hopefully none of the girls will kill me… just think of it as benefiting ‘brotherkind’ and hey what if someone emails and says ‘that matches me to a T!’ we could have our own bloggalishish marriage 
Also, since it is from weeks ago my memory is very hazy … I wish we had taped it!( FBI: please send aforementioned tape to Jannah, 123 Sesame St. thanx!)
Girl #1 I like scruffy guys, with long hair, they have a lived in look, dress casually and are open, they can even be a little pudgy. (We made fun of her and said we’d find her a homeless guy!)
Girl #2 The first thing I look at on a guy is above his ears, if they have that straight haircut line (no joke she totally said this! we were like :O)
Girl #3 I like guys that have a temper (we were like WHAT!!) She’s like you know guys who are so passionate about everything that they get mad about things. I want to be able to tease him. (we said we’d find her an italian guy!)
Girl #4 I want a guy who has his own interests and isn’t in the same field. We’ll live mostly independent lives but will be able to learn from each other.
Girl #5 I like guys that are very clean and hygienic, I look at their hands, if their fingers are long and artistic and if the fingernails are clean.
Girl #6 I like quiet guys and my husband is the very quiet type. I like that because I like to talk and I want to be the one talking.
Girl #7 I’ll marry whoever my parents choose for me. They know me better than anyone and I trust the choice they would make. (us amreekan girls were like.. !)
Girl #8 I find when guys have those veins on their arms attractive. (we’re like veins??) Yeah the veins on their arms or neck. (uhhh ok)
Girl #9 I like guys that are smart and will argue and debate with me on topics. I like social guys that know how to talk to everyone.
Girl #10 Let’s be honest I really like black guys but my parents would never go for that. (us: 
) I like older guys, my friends are always like why do u like uncles! but I think they’re more mature and interesting.
Girl #11 I have to marry a ___profession___, because I’m going to be one so my Dad thinks that’s going to be compatible with my future life. (us: ugh)
Girl #12 I like guys who are tall, at least 6′ and are muscular and are introverts.
Girl #13 I can’t think of anymore so I’ll just say what I said. I find attractive…guys that are humble, charming, clean-cut suit type of guys. Outgoing, intelligent and spiritual. (they were like what no beard! I was like u know a cleancut/close shaven kind of beard 
)
Anyways there was a lot more said…we were there for hours and we had FOOD and I do mean CHOCOLATE. It was just extremely illuminating. Every girl had a different idea of what she found attractive and by extension perhaps even how she thought the perfect marriage and partner would be.
Some things were universal, like almost every girl mentioned someone who was honest, that would respect and support them, would be into their family and also was “not too religious”. The “not too religious” I asked about and I think it’s this notion that “very religious Muslim men” are kind of scary and wanting to impose their views on them and might not be open minded about things. I know I’ve met that kind and I’m sure they have too, but I wouldn’t attribute it to “religious” but to their wrong application of it. (You can read more about the topic of ‘religiosity’ and what constitutes being religions imo on the blog previous to this one). One girl just got out of a Rishta with someone “way too religious for her” and she said it was a relief because she could be herself again!
No one really mentioned looks and the actual phrases “good looking, cute, gorgeous” were never said. It’s not that they didn’t care, I think they were fine with decent as long as what they were looking for was there in the guy. No one mentioned ‘can cook’ or ‘can help out around the house’. I thought that would have been important? But someone did mention to make sure to see how he treats his mother and sisters. No one said “rich or wealthy job” or “million dollar mahr”, but many mentioned he should be able to support a family.
Anyway all in all an illuminating evening. Perhaps this will give all women pause to think about what exactly we do find attractive and consider if this is actually important in a marriage. For guys perhaps this will give them hope… there’s a girl out there that is attracted to your type!! Yayyy. All’s good 
So now the question is are guys looking for mostly the same things or are they all different as we are?
Disclaimer: All relation of the above to reality and real people or real events is purely coincidental.
P.S. If anyone would like to write anything for the blog on any interesting subject just let me know!
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February 27th, 2009 at 12:29 pm
This picture decribes me to a T – so what’s the problem?
February 27th, 2009 at 1:31 pm
lol girls u heard it here first.. write to abdul kabir at 123 cairo way… but seriously.. could be ur not coming across to ppl like above? or liking the type of girl that doesn’t like ur type since we see here that every girl is different?
February 27th, 2009 at 2:41 pm
maybe, just maybe, guy are the ones that are too picky… maybe they have this delusion that they are perfect, but all the girls that come their way are not good enough for them…
small tip: when looking for a partner, you need to stop looking for someone to fit into YOUR life, and start looking for someone with whom you can build a life TOGETHER. Everyone has their own goals, yes. But once youre married, there is no more “I”. Its about both of you.
February 27th, 2009 at 2:52 pm
salams
welllllllll … here are my thoughts on a few overall *categories* that I didnt see mentioned or referred to, up there:
Personal outlook / demeanor: Is he generally optimistic? Sees the glass as half full? Can see the silver lining on every cloud? Or does he consider himself a “realist” [a.k.a pessimistic]
Motivational level: can he PUMP. YOU. UP?! can you rely on him to recharge your battery when you’re running low? Does he wanna keep aiming higher and help you do the same? Or is he just kinda mediocre, and settles for Plain Joe average?
Type of humor: Lets face it, there are many different types: slapstick, dry, sarcasm, uber-cheesy-lame, mime, folksy, dirty [between spouses only], etc. and more. Not all types of humor work with everyone. I know this fits under the broader personality umbrella, but this a pretty critical sub-set; I’m not sure there’s too many girls out there that can truthfully say [with commensurate experience] that they dont mind if he doesn’t know how to crack a joke or make them laugh. Otherwise, most women want a guy that can connect with their sense of humor and make them laugh. The guys reading this should especially remember that there are just a few “idle” activities that are actually rewarded by Allah [SWT] and one of them is teasing your wife, spending time with her, making her laugh, etc.
There’s more, but I’ll leave it at that for now.
February 27th, 2009 at 3:11 pm
Hahah I wish we taped it all too. You forgot the Greek comment!
Hahaha, and I dunno but I think we all did mention that looks matter. I mean we talked about the little details like arm veins, jaw bones, etc.. but hey, the first thing we can judge someone is based on their physical appearance.. no? I mean before you know what a person is like, you can only see their face.. and I mean.. if the shoe doesn’t fit, we might have a problem. 
Hahah I kid, I kid (sortakindamaybee).
February 27th, 2009 at 4:56 pm
razia tru girl very tru…goes for girls too eh?
maverick.. i don’t think girls really care if he’s ‘motivational’ or not…but maybe you mean ’supportive’ in what she does and in that case totally. optimist/realist good to point that out for compatibility’s sake. it’s definitely grating if he’s the opposite all the time, although if it’s not too extreme it could be a good complement to each other? humor yes lots of kinds of humor but i think there’s also the general category of ‘has one’ or ‘doesn’t’
anam i did forget! what was the greek comment? most of the girls did mention weird tiny physical things but they didn’t say like ‘model-looking’ or ‘has to be great looking’ unless u said it when i wasn’t looking
(don’t try to change what u said now!! too late ur getting an average-looking guy just what u ordered originally!)
February 27th, 2009 at 8:16 pm
Hahahahahaa….that was really interesting…..you forgot the side cut hahahahaha…..but yeah I believe most girls care about the personality more than looking…married couples always suggest to marry the opposite so both will have more chances in discovering each other hahahahaa…This might work sometimes…..anyway Thank you Jannah for the very ineteresting topic…and I will add more ideas next time Inshallah….lets do it again hahahaha
February 27th, 2009 at 8:20 pm
Alhamdulillah…..I think that night went great…..we actually got to learn a bit about ourselves as well as others…….cause usually u don’t know off the bat untill u r asked…….I loved it….
I think really a spouse (weather it be a man or woman) does need support the most….there are many experiences that both of u have to go through….but doing it together will make it so much easier!….and Inshallah we all find what we are looking for or at least the majority of it……more power to ya sista’s …..love u all!!!
February 27th, 2009 at 10:20 pm
I’ve never gone for the “Average Joe’s” so I dunnooo Jannah, I think you missed half the things I was saying hahaha.. probabbllyy for your own good though ;-D.
I’m gonna fb-message you the Greek comment and if you think it’s appropriate enough I’ll post it here haha.
February 27th, 2009 at 10:37 pm
OMG Anam!!! no wonder i blocked that out.. definitely too R rated to be on the blog lol… there are children who read this… well not really, but I read this :p
anyways a brother who read the blog mentioned that all these things usually go out the window when you meet the right person. and that you can’t really apply a checklist and stuff to these kinda things. it’s all about personality, and these things are not really what people are looking for in a spouse??? or that they might be looking for those things, but in the end they don’t matter as much???
but i contend that people have “types” they are attracted to… like a shy, quiet type or outgoing whatever type so I think it does make a difference at least for compatiblity/chemistry’s sake. what do you guys think???
btw do we have two farasha’s?? weird..
February 28th, 2009 at 12:44 am
Haha it might be the same person.
I think it’s a little depressing when people say that “after marriage this or that doesn’t matter”.. whatever happened to keeping it alive? Man, marriage seems less & less appealing to me BY DAY.
I’m with you Huma, I think there are types that everyone’s attracted to & it makes a big difference. You know I don’t hear the whole chemistry shpeal from muslims much, but it SO matters! It’s how we make friends too.. if we have that chemistry there.
February 28th, 2009 at 2:13 am
You know what would be nice, is if the guys could reciprocate and write anonymously about what they find attractive? We could maybe learn a few things?
February 28th, 2009 at 6:17 pm
*crickets*
sigh this is why we’re still single girls!!
interesting point about chemistry with friends anam… SO TRUE… some girls I just meet and we CLICK or something for life and even if we go 10 years not meeting we’d still click if we met again…
February 28th, 2009 at 6:41 pm
To answer your question about what men are looking for in women. In my experience I haven’t seen it as diverse as that. Most guys want the same things in a woman, they just arrange their priorities differently. I can say that unlike most girls think, guys usually don’t have looks at the top of the list. It’s always there, but things like compatibility and brains may come before looks.
To summarize, I think most guys look for someone who can create a “home”, and just like the prophet (pbuh) said “he feels happiness when he looks at her”. I am not sure though how you can measure that in the material world!
February 28th, 2009 at 8:15 pm
Haha sorry Jannah the first farasha was me the real one….but the second one below my comments was “husin” loool she wrote my name by mistake sorryyy……
btw I still like the side burns issue hahahaha…..
I loved ur blog and I read it more than 100 times now…..
keep it up…..
February 28th, 2009 at 11:06 pm
Reading the post reminded me of the famous hadith of Umm Zara.
The exchange between ‘A’isha {Rd.} and Rasulullah {saw} at the very end is quite deep and beautiful…
THE HADITH OF UMM ZARA -
‘A’isha reported that (one day) there sat together eleven women making an explicit promise amongst themselves that they would conceal nothing about their spouses. The first one said: My husband is a sort of the meat of a lean camel placed at the top of a hill, which it is difficult to climb up, nor (the meat) is good enough that one finds in oneself the urge to take it away (from the top of that mountain).
The second one said: My husband (is so bad) that I am afraid I would not be able to describe his faults-both visible and invisible completely.
The third one said: My husband is a long-statured fellow (i. e. he lacks intelligence). If I give vent to my feelings about him, he would divorce me, and if I keep quiet I would be made to live in a state of suspense (neither completely abandoned by him nor entertained as wife).
The fourth one said: My husband is like the night of Tihama (the night of Hijaz and Mecca), neither too cold nor hot, neither there is any fear of him nor grief.
The fifth one said: My husband is (like) a leopard as he enters the house, and behaves like a lion when he gets out, and he does not ask about that which he leaves in the house.
The sixth one said: So far as my husband is concerned, he eats so much that nothing is left back and when he drinks he drinks that no drop is left behind. And when he lies down he wraps his body and does not touch me so that he may know my grief.
The seventh one said: My husband is heavy in spirit, having no brightness in him, impotent, suffering from all kinds of conceivable diseases, heaving such rough manners that he may break my head or wound my body, or may do both.
The eighth one said: My husband is as sweet as the sweet-smelling plant, and as soft as the softness of the hare.
The ninth one said: My husband is the master of a lofty building, long-statured, having heaps of ashes (at his door) and his house is near the meeting place and the inn.
The tenth one said: My husband is Malik, and how fine Malik is, much above appreciation and praise (of mine). He has many folds of his camel, more in number than the pastures for them. When they (the camels) hear the sound of music they become sure that they are going to be slaughtered.
The eleventh one said: My husband is Abu Zara’. How fine Abu Zara’ is! He has suspended in my ears heavy ornaments and (fed me liberally) that my sinews and bones are covered with fat. So he made me happy. He found me among the shepherds living in the side of the mountain, and he made me the owner of the horses, camels and lands and heaps of grain and he finds no fault with me. I sleep and get up in the morning (at my own sweet will) and drink to my heart’s content. The mother of Abu Zara’, how fine is the mother of Abu Zara’! Her bundles are heavily packed (or receptacles in her house are filled to the brim) and the house quite spacious. So far as the son of Abu Zara’ is concerned, his bed is as soft as a green palm-stick drawn forth from its bark, or like a sword drawn forth from its scabbard, and whom just an arm of a lamb is enough to satiate. So far as the daughter of Abu Zara’ is concerned, how fine is the daughter of Abu Zara’, obedient to her father, obedient to her mother, wearing sufficient flesh and a source of jealousy for her co-wife. As for the slave-girl of Abu Zara’, how fine is she; she does not disclose our affairs to others (outside the four walls of the house). She does not remove our wheat, or provision, or take it forth, or squander it, but she preserves it faithfully (as a sacred trust). And she does not let the house fill with rubbish. One day Abu Zara’ went out (of his house) when the milk was churned in the vessels, that he met a woman, having two children like leopards playing with her pomegranates (chest) under her vest. He divorced me (Umm Zara’) and married that woman (whom Abu Zara’) met on the way. I (Umm Zara’) later on married another person, a chief, who was an expert rider, and a fine archer: he bestowed upon me many gifts and gave me one pair of every kind of animal and said: Umm Zara’, make use of everything (you need) and send forth to your parents (but the fact) is that even if I combine all the gifts that he bestowed upon me, they stand no comparison to the least gift of Abu Zara’.
‘A’isha reported that Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) said to me: I am for you as Abu Zara’ was for Umm Zara’.
*** In some traditions the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) says “O ‘A’isha! I am to you like Abu Zara’ was to Umm Zara’ – except that Abu Zara’ divorced (her), and I will not divorce you.” to which Sayyidina ‘A’isha replies “O Allah’s Messenger! You are better to me than Abu Zara’ was to Umm Zara’” to show her appreciation of his favours on her.
commentary -
http://truelife200vi.wordpress.com/2008/02/18/hadith-ummi-zara/
Translation of Sahih Muslim,
Book 31: ‘The Book Pertaining to the Merits of the Companions (Allah Be Pleased With Them) of the Holy Prophet (May Peace Be Upon Him) (Kitab Al-Fada’il Al-Sahabah)’
Chapter 14: The Hadith of Umm Zara
Hadith #: 5998
February 28th, 2009 at 11:10 pm
A lesson in desire, marriage and akhiraah -
A scholar once explained about why the ‘mothers of the believers – the wives of Rasulullah (saw) – had no need or desire to marry anyone after the death of Rasulullah (saw). To explain, he uses the example of the companion Umm Darda:
Umm Darda as-Suggarah (the young) – after Abu Darda (her husband) died – she prayed:
“Ya Allah, Abu Darda asked for my hand from my family – and my family married me to him.
Ya Allah, I ask You for the hand of Abu Darda in Jannah – please marry him to me in Jannah.”
Therefore, when Muawwiyah ibn Abi Suffyan (Rd) – the mightiest man on the earth, and the calipah of the Muslim Ummah – when he asked for her hand. She said:
“No, because I want to marry Abu Darda in Jannah – because Rasulullah (saw) taught: ‘In Jannah, the woman will marry her last husband, if they are both believers and enter Jannah’. Let my last husband be Abu Darda – there is no equal to Abu Darda.”
March 1st, 2009 at 12:18 am
jazaks for those hadiths.. may we all indeed find husbands like abu zara (without the divorce
) and abu darda and indeed of the best like rasulullah saw.
one of the interesting things about abu zara was that he really provided for and treated well everyone around him, his wife, his son, his daughter, his mother, his slavegirl. makes sense now why why it was suggested that girls find out how potential rishtas treat his sisters/mothers and home life.
also, seems like umm zara never forgot her first love even when she was married to a great cheiftan that gave her everything she wanted. almost how like rasululllah saw never forgot khadijah. definitely some true love/chemistry going on.
March 6th, 2009 at 3:50 pm
BTW related topic for brothers:
http://jannah.org/madina/index.php?topic=2544.0
Guide to Being a Gentleman PDF guide for guys!
March 9th, 2009 at 4:50 pm
I asked Talib^2 to write a response and he actually did! Check it out here: http://theprince100.blogspot.com/
March 12th, 2009 at 2:54 am
As-Salamu Alikum!
Nice Job! and here is my view of things:
http://theprince100.blogspot.com/2009/03/boys-and-girls.html
Of course, there are more to it than what’s mentioned, but in reality decisions would be made on many aspects. Guys are picky too, they may not show it but they are. I guess, finding someone that you can “Click with” is a major concern. Good job again… and I will check the blog every now and then!
March 18th, 2009 at 3:43 am
i’m ur typical muslim dude. did college and working now. dated around bit. looking to get married now. looking for a housewife type. seems like housewife is a bad word these days. dont want anyone independent. if ure independent you wont need a husband. u got u. someone educated. shes gotta be attractive, not fat and not anorexic. and shes gotta be cool with livin with my family. and of course shes gotta be religous, more so then me preferably. so yeah that wat this dude looks for.
March 18th, 2009 at 5:48 am
typical muslim dude?? uhhh did you just make up that whole thing as a “what do Muslim girls NOT find attractive”? no offence but this is what any girl is going to think: first he dated around… what does that mean… obviously that he’s not a practicing muslim. second a housewife type? women end up doing all the housewife things ie taking care of the house and kids but they definitely want to do more than that too ie contribute to society or use their education in some way. as for independence, no woman living in this world today is not going to be independent. but i hope by ‘not independent’ you don’t mean ‘will bow to my every will’. being married does mean interdependence, but no self-respecting woman wants to be a doormat. and live with your family? not many sisters i know would want to do that — way too much drama and problems and she has the right islamically to have her own quarters. attractive and the perfect weight, ok, as long as you are too. and way more religious than you? no doubt likely, but why would a religious girl want to marry someone who isn’t. but on the upside i finally found out who gunga din was: http://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Gunga_Din
March 18th, 2009 at 6:45 am
He was a good guy. as good as fictional guys come. Kipling writes well. do u not beleive that one can change for the better? So i ran with the wrong crowd and did things i shouldnt have. Am i forever tainted? I should shave my head and become a monk. And why are you taking offence to what I, the new gunga din, personally want?
March 18th, 2009 at 12:00 pm
Yes I do believe people can change for the better. Allah forgives and so should we. You can want whatever you like. Best of luck to you.
March 26th, 2009 at 8:52 am
Astaghfirullah ” Too religious for me ” . That is so sad. The prophet (sallallahu A’layhi wa Sallam) is too religious for these girls I guess. That is sad. Just watch what will happen to the women who marry men that are not “too religious” in this world and the hereafter. The most important thing you should look for in a spouse is piety and you guys have thrown that out the door. But the saddest thing is that Rasoolullah (sallallahu A’layhi wa Sallam) would be too religious for these girls. Change yourself.. May Allah give you hidayah. Aameen.
March 26th, 2009 at 9:01 am
But of course I’m probably wrong because Allah has already said in the Quran
“Vile women are for vile men, and vile men for vile women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women; such are innocent of that which people say: For them is pardon and a bountiful provision.” (24;26)
Sorry people Allah already said it.
March 26th, 2009 at 8:59 pm
shakaib, i think we explained what some of them meant when they said “too religious”. they meant more like “act like they’re religious when they’re not”. also see the previous blog discussion about what “religious” actually means to different people. as for the ayah you quoted, i think it’s better for everyone to read the tafseer on that verse.
March 27th, 2009 at 7:39 am
Of course I will be glad to. Here is the tafseer of Mufti Shafi Uthmani’s (Rahmatullah A’layh) Maariful Qur’an translated by his son, Mufti Taqi Uthmani (Damat Barakatuhum)
Vile women are for vile men, and vile men are for vile women. And good women are for good men and good men are for good women. Those are free from what they (the accusers) say. For them there is forgiveness and a graceful provision – 24:26.
It means that the vulgar women are suitable for vulgar men and the vulgar men are suitable for vulgar women. And pure women are worthy for pure men and pure men are worthy for pure women.
In this last verse the common principle is stated that Allah Ta A’la has created a connection between the people of the same nature. Thus, vulgar and unchaste women are inclined towards vulgar and unchaste men and
vice versa. Similarly, pure and chaste women show inclination towards pure and decent men and vice versa. Therefore, everyone tries to find the spouse according to one’s inclination and liking, and in a natural way one
does find one to suit him or her.
In the light of this norm and principle it is now quite clear that the messengers of Allah, who are the models of purity and chastity both outwardly and inwardly in this world, are granted spouses by Allah Ta A’la in accordance with their status. Hence, the Holy Prophet (Sallallah Hu A’layhi Wa Sallam) who is the head of all messengers, was bestowed with spouses who were befitting to his position and status in purity, chastity and ethical excellence, and
Sayyidah Aishah (Radhiallahu A’nha)is more prominent among them all. Only those can have any doubt or suspicion about her who do not have faith in the Holy Prophet (Sallallah Hu A’layhi Wa Sallam) himself. It is mentioned about the wife of Sayyidina Nooh and Sayyidna Loot (Alayhimus Salaam) in the Qur’an that they were
disbelievers, but it is also established that they were not involved in any obscenity or vulgarity. Sayyidina Ibn Abbas (Radhiallahu A’nhu) said ‘Never did a wife of a messenger commit adultery’. It is, therefore, corroborated that it is possible that a messenger’s wife could be a disbeliever, but it is not possible that she could be vulgar and sexually immoral, because adultery is a natural detestable act in the eyes of people, whereas disbelief is not a natural detestable thing. (Bayan
al-Qur’an)
Sorry for any disrespect I may have shown to you by writing any of this stuff.
March 27th, 2009 at 6:19 pm
i def left a comment on here and it got deleted!!!!!!
March 27th, 2009 at 8:45 pm
nouha the comments are moderated. that’s why you might not see them right away. i have to approve them. once submitted you should see the comment though and a “under moderatation” next to it. if you don’t see that it might not have gone through. after commenting a few times the system then recognizes you and it just posts the comment immediately.
shakaib from ibn kathir tafseer we learn: Ibn `Abbas said, “Evil words are for evil men, and evil men are for evil words; good words are for good men and good men are for good words. This was revealed concerning `A’ishah and the people of the slander.” This was also narrated from Mujahid, `Ata’, Sa`id bin Jubayr, Ash-Sha`bi, Al-Hasan bin Abu Al-Hasan Al-Basri, Habib bin Abi Thabit and Ad-Dahhak, and it was also the view favored by Ibn Jarir. He interpreted it to mean that evil speech is more suited to evil people, and good speech is more suited to good people. What the hypocrites attributed to `A’ishah was more suited to them, and she was most suited to innocence and having nothing to do with them. Allah said:
(such (good people) are innocent of (every) bad statement which they say;) `Abdur-Rahman bin Zayd bin Aslam said, “Evil women are for evil men and evil men are for evil women, and good women are for good men and good men are for good women.” This also necessarily refers back to what they said, i.e., Allah would not have made `A’ishah the wife of His Messenger unless she had been good, because he is the best of the best of mankind. If she had been evil, she would not have been a suitable partner either according to His Laws or His decree.
http://www.tafsir.com/default.asp?sid=24&tid=35773
April 5th, 2009 at 10:44 pm
BTW since this post gets a lot of hits by i assume ‘guys who are looking’? since it’s so hard to find someone good these days, why not put what you are looking for as well and if any of the above 15 sisters (non married ones of course lol) are interested we could always try and matchmake inshaAllah