Comments on: Whatchu momma never told u…(Advice for Muslim girls) http://jannah.org/blog/2009/05/29/advice-for-muslim-girls/ A Single Muslimah's Musings Sun, 21 Mar 2010 05:11:51 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: jannah http://jannah.org/blog/2009/05/29/advice-for-muslim-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-87101 jannah Thu, 07 Jan 2010 01:04:00 +0000 http://jannah.org/blog/?p=574#comment-87101 wsalaam sarah, i'm glad you sent him an email and were mature about it. :) yeah some bros don't listen unless you get other ppl involved lol. about marrying someone younger.. i don't know.. i've seen it work and not work and that's only one part of a big equation.. Allah knows best. wsalaam sarah, i’m glad you sent him an email and were mature about it. :) yeah some bros don’t listen unless you get other ppl involved lol. about marrying someone younger.. i don’t know.. i’ve seen it work and not work and that’s only one part of a big equation.. Allah knows best.

]]> By: sarah http://jannah.org/blog/2009/05/29/advice-for-muslim-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-87096 sarah Wed, 06 Jan 2010 22:50:42 +0000 http://jannah.org/blog/?p=574#comment-87096 sister, u think i haven't done that. it has been a while and yes it was my mistake to even thinking to marry this guy. and i know it is harram to talk to guys as i wasn't aware of that time subhana'allah. anyways i have emailed him telling it was a mistake and all, but still he doesn't get it. i don't know if some guys are like that or is it just this one..anyways. some what my sis have been knowing something has been wrong with me, and then wen she found out that i was talking to a guy and all that of course she got mad..and she herself send him an email to back off. and after that he didnt even said anything...but i am glad that happened or else i would have been misrable all my life... and forgot to tell u sis i have one more question for u, if u don't mind. is it ok to marry someone younger than u?? i mean the brother is a year younger. just want an adive from u..wa jazakalahukhair sister, u think i haven’t done that. it has been a while and yes it was my mistake to even thinking to marry this guy. and i know it is harram to talk to guys as i wasn’t aware of that time subhana’allah. anyways i have emailed him telling it was a mistake and all, but still he doesn’t get it. i don’t know if some guys are like that or is it just this one..anyways. some what my sis have been knowing something has been wrong with me, and then wen she found out that i was talking to a guy and all that of course she got mad..and she herself send him an email to back off. and after that he didnt even said anything…but i am glad that happened or else i would have been misrable all my life…
and forgot to tell u sis i have one more question for u, if u don’t mind. is it ok to marry someone younger than u?? i mean the brother is a year younger. just want an adive from u..wa jazakalahukhair

]]> By: jannah http://jannah.org/blog/2009/05/29/advice-for-muslim-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-87072 jannah Tue, 05 Jan 2010 19:08:02 +0000 http://jannah.org/blog/?p=574#comment-87072 wsalaam, thanks for your comments everyone :) sarah.. hmmm so let me understand.. you were talking to a guy for months in an online relationship with him and even agreed to marry him and now you've changed your mind, so you've just deleted him as a friend to try to get rid of him? wow... that just doesn't sound very nice does it? sounds like the advice i give bros NOT to do to poor sisters. you sound like he's still in contact with you. i'd send him one last email/message and tell him you made a mistake, that the wrong is all on your side, and you don't want to marry him/have any relationship or friendship with him and are sorry. and then that's it. and also stop talking to guys :) wsalaam,

thanks for your comments everyone :)

sarah.. hmmm so let me understand.. you were talking to a guy for months in an online relationship with him and even agreed to marry him and now you’ve changed your mind, so you’ve just deleted him as a friend to try to get rid of him? wow… that just doesn’t sound very nice does it? sounds like the advice i give bros NOT to do to poor sisters. you sound like he’s still in contact with you. i’d send him one last email/message and tell him you made a mistake, that the wrong is all on your side, and you don’t want to marry him/have any relationship or friendship with him and are sorry. and then that’s it. and also stop talking to guys :)

]]> By: sarah http://jannah.org/blog/2009/05/29/advice-for-muslim-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-87056 sarah Tue, 05 Jan 2010 04:56:25 +0000 http://jannah.org/blog/?p=574#comment-87056 Asalamulikum, am sorry but insha'allah wen u answer my first question i would like to ask another one..subhna'allah, i got loads of questions for u:D Asalamulikum,
am sorry but insha’allah wen u answer my first question i would like to ask another one..subhna’allah, i got loads of questions for u:D

]]> By: sarah http://jannah.org/blog/2009/05/29/advice-for-muslim-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-87054 sarah Tue, 05 Jan 2010 04:51:24 +0000 http://jannah.org/blog/?p=574#comment-87054 Asalamulikum warahmatullah, masha'allah i have learned sooo much from u. i just want to ask a question and insha'llah u can answer it for me. tayyib. I had this "relationship" with this brother. and of course i didn't know back then we aren't suppose to talk to guys even thought they consider to "only be friends". but subhana'allah wen he added me as a friend, i of course accepted it. and the talking went by too far as he wanted to marry me. and i of course said no. and then he kept on making me feel bad so i said ok. and subhna'allah i wasn't aware of all of these things. i tried to block him and all but still he wouldn't give up. then wen i actually told my mother wat happened she told me to delet him and etc.. the talking has been for months. andit as my first time talking to a guy for a long time. and now i don't know wat to do..can u please suggest to me wat else i can do??.. jazakallahukhair! Asalamulikum warahmatullah,
masha’allah i have learned sooo much from u. i just want to ask a question and insha’llah u can answer it for me. tayyib. I had this “relationship” with this brother. and of course i didn’t know back then we aren’t suppose to talk to guys even thought they consider to “only be friends”. but subhana’allah wen he added me as a friend, i of course accepted it. and the talking went by too far as he wanted to marry me. and i of course said no. and then he kept on making me feel bad so i said ok. and subhna’allah i wasn’t aware of all of these things. i tried to block him and all but still he wouldn’t give up. then wen i actually told my mother wat happened she told me to delet him and etc.. the talking has been for months. andit as my first time talking to a guy for a long time. and now i don’t know wat to do..can u please suggest to me wat else i can do??..
jazakallahukhair!

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