Comments on: A brother responds with his own top 10! http://jannah.org/blog/2009/08/14/top-20-reasons-why-being-a-muslim-single-is-nice/ A Single Muslimah's Musings Fri, 19 Mar 2010 20:06:12 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: umar http://jannah.org/blog/2009/08/14/top-20-reasons-why-being-a-muslim-single-is-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-86473 umar Fri, 30 Oct 2009 23:09:46 +0000 http://jannah.org/blog/?p=951#comment-86473 i totally agree with u brother. being single is much better. the 1 bad thing about being single is that you might fall into the major sin of sleeping with someone before marriage. other than that, single is gurrrrrrrrrd :):):):):) i totally agree with u brother. being single is much better. the 1 bad thing about being single is that you might fall into the major sin of sleeping with someone before marriage. other than that, single is gurrrrrrrrrd :) :):):):)

]]> By: Omar http://jannah.org/blog/2009/08/14/top-20-reasons-why-being-a-muslim-single-is-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-86392 Omar Thu, 15 Oct 2009 14:56:33 +0000 http://jannah.org/blog/?p=951#comment-86392 I have been married for little over a year now, and it is a blessing, and it is tuff. Tuff learning to co-exist. But why not co-exist, as no one up here on this blog has said that Being married is half of your deen. I don't think getting married is half, I think staying married is half. I love my wife. At times I feel anger I try my best to stay quiet. One word or expression always seems to get out before I keep myself quiet though. She can read it on my face. We can't be perfect. We can only try, make dua, istikarah(typo?) and Pray that our decisions leading our actions are righteous. I find myself constantly online searching for answers in Islam about what I should do if this happens, or if that happens what could be my alternative to the norm in society's marriages. I look for how the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) dealt with the everyday going-ons of his own household. It all makes sense to get AND STAY married! Kinda brings you to another level of maturity by involuntarily having mirrored for you everyday your actions by another's reactions. Your spouse shows you when you are BS'ing your self, and if you are trying to BS someone else. Sorry for the language. But your Spouse is there as a Mirror to the Muslim. Your soul is reflected when you step up to being married. Just a note to take heed to All you muslims out there. And for the muslim in here(pointing to self). ;) As-Salaamu-Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu I have been married for little over a year now, and it is a blessing, and it is tuff. Tuff learning to co-exist. But why not co-exist, as no one up here on this blog has said that Being married is half of your deen. I don’t think getting married is half, I think staying married is half. I love my wife. At times I feel anger I try my best to stay quiet. One word or expression always seems to get out before I keep myself quiet though. She can read it on my face. We can’t be perfect. We can only try, make dua, istikarah(typo?) and Pray that our decisions leading our actions are righteous. I find myself constantly online searching for answers in Islam about what I should do if this happens, or if that happens what could be my alternative to the norm in society’s marriages. I look for how the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) dealt with the everyday going-ons of his own household. It all makes sense to get AND STAY married! Kinda brings you to another level of maturity by involuntarily having mirrored for you everyday your actions by another’s reactions. Your spouse shows you when you are BS’ing your self, and if you are trying to BS someone else. Sorry for the language. But your Spouse is there as a Mirror to the Muslim. Your soul is reflected when you step up to being married. Just a note to take heed to All you muslims out there. And for the muslim in here(pointing to self). ;) As-Salaamu-Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

]]> By: owism http://jannah.org/blog/2009/08/14/top-20-reasons-why-being-a-muslim-single-is-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-86199 owism Fri, 18 Sep 2009 20:57:50 +0000 http://jannah.org/blog/?p=951#comment-86199 i guess its easily explained by.. you don't know the different level of happiness unless your on this side of the view, until then.. happiness is found on that side of the view. Insha Allah happy both ways :) i guess its easily explained by.. you don’t know the different level of happiness unless your on this side of the view, until then.. happiness is found on that side of the view. Insha Allah happy both ways :)

]]> By: Myrna http://jannah.org/blog/2009/08/14/top-20-reasons-why-being-a-muslim-single-is-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-86152 Myrna Mon, 14 Sep 2009 07:21:42 +0000 http://jannah.org/blog/?p=951#comment-86152 Assalamualiakum, I'm new to this web site, some are true. Assalamualiakum,

I’m new to this web site, some are true.

]]> By: Ahmed http://jannah.org/blog/2009/08/14/top-20-reasons-why-being-a-muslim-single-is-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-86023 Ahmed Thu, 27 Aug 2009 16:13:05 +0000 http://jannah.org/blog/?p=951#comment-86023 Ok I agree with some of ur point. There is that occasional nagging and tantrums and breaking of stuff and things go on and on and on. Yes there sure are days where my above comments are a total sugar coating of a sour pickel but I wouldn't have it anyother way. I hope Allah get all of u brothers and sisters married off at the right chosen time and bless u will rightous children soon after marriage. And rightous means to support ur families as well. While my wife is running around my son in the kitchen I am holding my month old daughter... This motivate me to achive better. And that's very important for a human being. Motivation to set an example for the kids, motivation to act in a rightous fashion. Allah accept our fasting and good deeds. Amen Ok I agree with some of ur point. There is that occasional nagging and tantrums and breaking of stuff and things go on and on and on. Yes there sure are days where my above comments are a total sugar coating of a sour pickel but I wouldn’t have it anyother way. I hope Allah get all of u brothers and sisters married off at the right chosen time and bless u will rightous children soon after marriage. And rightous means to support ur families as well. While my wife is running around my son in the kitchen I am holding my month old daughter… This motivate me to achive better. And that’s very important for a human being. Motivation to set an example for the kids, motivation to act in a rightous fashion. Allah accept our fasting and good deeds. Amen

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