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North and South (2004)

Film: North and South (2004)
imdb: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0417349/
length: 4 hours

Ok so just watched this…. it was amazing…….one of those period pieces where you are just swept away by the drama. It’s the story of Margaret Hale a young woman who is forced to move to a northern industrial town around the time of the industrial revolution. There she meets factory owner John Thornton and befriends the workers. It’s really a very dark sort of story that gets into the lives of all the people of the town and all their problems.

I really never thought there would be a hero as great as Mr. Darcy but Thornton as the dark and brooding hero is like amazing. Oh and you’ll cry a lot I certainly did! I have to get the book!! Guys won’t like it I think unless they’re like really British Wink Anyways if you liked pride & prejudice this doesn’t have that sparkling light quality of jane austen, and the heroine is not as likeable as lizzie, but it’s definitely great to watch! [thumb]

Cheers Smiley  Bebzi

What’s with the fascination w/ Mr. darcy?

salam, so lots of bros ask me this so i decided to write a post to help them out.

Why is Pride and Prejudice so fascinating?

ok brothers let me ‘splain u …….. (as azhar usman says :-/ )

*spoilers*

basically the story is about a family of 5 girls set around 19th century england. so the mother is of course desperately trying to marry them off. two really wealthy guys *just happen to* show up in their neighborhood. so the first one falls in love with the eldest girl, and the other one at first does not like the second sister but over the course of the movie ends up falling in love with her and she with him. and there’s some sub-plots and some adventures but thats basically what its about

so why do girls love it?

  • - every muslim girl has a mother who desperately wants to marry her off
  • - who wouldn’t want a rich, intelligent guy to fall in love with her
  • - who hasn’t had a proposal from a freak cousin/mr. collins type
  • - we all want to wear the pretty dresses in the movie
  • - who hasn’t been brushed off by some guy cause they are at first ‘not pretty enough’
  • - and of course who doesn’t love a happy ending

so i hope you now understand.

and don’t be jealous of mr darcy… for you married brothers i’m sure for your wives you are the mr darcy!! :)

Now let me ‘splain u why Mr. darcy is so special:

when he first meets elizabeth he thinks she is plain (an 18th century word for not pretty) and beneath him in terms of rank and family, so he completely disses her. over the course of the book/movie he starts to learn more about her and he realizes that she is witty, intelligent and has a lot of other nice qualities. these qualities make her seem more attractive to him, but still he thinks her family is messed up and thinks it’s crazy for them to get together because he’s so much more wealthier and what will ppl say etc. but he thinks it over and feels that he’s willing to sacrifice and let elizabeth marry him. but when he proposes, she totally rejects him because he’s always been so arrogant and mean, and of course he tried to break up her sister and his friend!

over time he realizes what he’s done and comes to accept that he loves elizabeth and that his ‘prejudices’ were wrong and that his ‘pride’ led him wrong. elizabeth too realizes her prejudices/pride etc. then they meet again and blah blah . happy ending.

but the point is… he only saw the outward at first, but then he ends up loving her for her real self…and doesn’t everyone want to be loved for herself/himself despite having maybe negative things in looks, family, wealth etc. in the end darcy shows true character and nobility by doing that. isn’t that beautiful, ma’shallah?! :D

Abu Hurayrah related that the Prophet (saw) said:

Men marry women for four reasons: their money, their status in society, their beauty and their religion. If you marry one who is superior in religion, then you will be [happy and] successful. (Related by al-Bukhari and Muslim)

‘Shadows of Time’

Shadows of Time

How often have I stood here,
dreaming that you were with me.

Your hands were the wind caressing my hair.
Your eyes were the stars in the sky looking down on me.

And I kept asking the river…

…where you were.

—— What did it answer?

Nothing.

It just flowed on by, silently,
like my life.

It passes and you hardly notice.

–Scene from ‘Shadows of Time’
***~~~~****~*~**~*~*~**~*~
Salaam,

Ok I love independent films. The kind that have real meaning and at the end you’re just stunned and left wondering… what the??@!! and then you keep thinking about the people and story. Films like books can change everything. They can change the world and how you see things. I wish more Muslims were into film making but I think that’s going to change over time, inshaAllah.

So anyway I watched this German film called “Shadows of Time” (which was really quite beautiful link/ ) recently where it shows the 60+ years of the life of these two children (girl & boy) who grow up as child labourers in a carpet factory in Kolkata. At a few points in their life they miss meeting each other and certain opportunities and things by just a few moments. (twists of fate you could say).

To the point where the main protagonist one day stands staring out into the rain and says to the effect of “I’m thinking about what it feels like when when you know if you could change one moment from the past, 10 seconds, not more, then your entire life would be different.”

So I’ve been thinking about this.. is there a 10 seconds in your life where if fate had just changed that moment, moved things ever so slightly if u had moved ur head, turned around, saw someone, said something, received something would ur whole life follow a different path and be completely different?

Remember Romeo & Juliet when he just missed receiving the letter thus causing the whole story to end in tragedy.

We know these things are fated (by Allah) just wondering if anyone had them? I think the closest I came was almost getting stampeded during tawaf during Hajj. If I had been just to the right, just to the left, front, back anywhere except where I was I dont know what would have happenned that day.