LOL. what a joke... its an excuse to talk to girls. A few screenign questions. The only one who is screening and askign questions is the Wali, father or brother and asking you! not the other way around.
if a guy really wanted to talk to a girl then he wouldnt need to do that.
so the girl doesnt get asked any questions.....
so after getting questioned by the wali and her brother, you find out the sister is 5 years older than you and then what? Wait dont say o, you might come off as mean and hurt her feelings and make her feel liek a old hag.
I never heard of that before. And a sister talking to you... well i wouldnt have much respect for a woman like that, she probably messaging all the other men too.
its when women say things like that, it causes all the drama and gossip, and cause animosity amongst muslims.
Shouldnt be in your house and not shamelessly communicating with all these random guys on the internet through these forums without your wali present.
How can you know a sister?? i mean islamically that is not possible :S :S
You can know a sister...its called an engagement period.
Sounds like you run in a one way street, just get to know the brother and hide everything about yourself from the prospective brother and expect him to make a decision. And when he rejects, God forbid, he is given the label of being picky.
[/quote]But Facebook i use to stay in contact with mates (FEMALES) and to spread knowladge and also a good way to spread information about Islamic events, islamic society meetings and lectures. So it is how you use it!! if you abouse it and use it for haram then fair enough i would not reccomend anyone use it. But if its for good as i do and many sisters i know do then its is a form of Dawah.
I have never had a brother message me and say can i talk to your Wali. its always can i have YOUR email address, or can i Add you as a "freind"... HAHAHA. freindship concept between men and women is not even allowed in Islam so what are these people thinking??? WHat a JOKE some people are! :S :S
Just because it hasnt worked out for you doesnt mean its not a good means. You are really self centered and think that if its not about you, or not compatible to yo then it wont work for anyone else.
Well after all you are more knowledge than me.
After all you know more about the shia from your prospect than what is/was known from classical scholars and the scholars of today.
Then again, you must have some knowledge that no one else has which lets you call a person shia when he says he follows the qurana dn sunnah of RasoolAllah salAllahu'alayhi wa Sallam.
Well to me - that is joke.
What do we know. Please enlighten us Shaykha - alIslam.