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Ilyas

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Re: Something personal please take this seriously
« Reply #30 on: Aug. 10, 2010, 07:39 PM »

Asalam Alaikum,

I agree with the psychological problems and how women don't know half of what men go through when it comes to these things but still I feel ashamed trying to justify this behavior because of that. Reading these posts and thinking about my own view on this only confirms how weak of Iman we all have. Scapegoating is never the solution. Those parents that don't let their daughters get married are usually waiting for a better candidate not because they want their daughter's money.
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superman

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Re: Something personal please take this seriously
« Reply #31 on: Aug. 10, 2010, 09:26 PM »

Wsalaam fair point bro, but the issue here isnt of scapegoating but the need of sisters to start understanding the men better.
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3bdiAllaah

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Re: Something personal please take this seriously
« Reply #32 on: Aug. 11, 2010, 02:00 PM »

i guess i need to change the tone im talking in.

but if u reaalleee realleeee think im scapegoating. *angle face* jazaka Allaah, now thats SUPER COOL!

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3bdiAllaah

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Re: Something personal please take this seriously
« Reply #33 on: Aug. 11, 2010, 02:56 PM »


Khalid Yasin Advice To Parents


the scapegoating must go on. </sarcasm>
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superman

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Re: Something personal please take this seriously
« Reply #34 on: Aug. 11, 2010, 08:58 PM »

I didnt know you could embed youtube videos here?

Anyway, Khalid Yasin makes some great points mashallah.
I've had the honour of meeting him in person on multiple occasions.
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3bdiAllaah

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Re: Something personal please take this seriously
« Reply #35 on: Aug. 12, 2010, 11:17 AM »

akhi just paste the link in the reply and its automatically embedded.  ;D
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Seeking wife

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Re: Something personal please take this seriously
« Reply #36 on: Aug. 17, 2010, 10:30 AM »

We go worng when we start fearing people & not ALLAH (SWT), we forget that he is watching us all the time.
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3bdiAllaah

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Re: Something personal please take this seriously
« Reply #37 on: Aug. 17, 2010, 06:49 PM »

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cinders

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Re: Something personal please take this seriously
« Reply #38 on: Aug. 20, 2010, 12:05 PM »

2 great links BTW
Khalid Yasin makes some great points.

Just would like to add my tuppence worth. Firstly sister, as a fellow sister I have to inform you that this stuff goes on & you just have to ignore it. Maybe I'm saying this, because I'm older & you realise certain things go on, not nice but true. If you're having problems with it, I suggest you make sincere duah to Allah SWT that he gives your bro guidance & that he makes it easy for you to accept, & forgive your brother & rebuild your good relationship with him for the sake of Allah. Just remember, if Allah is all forgiving & most merciful... Then who are we NOT to forgive?
I do not think that you should go to your Parents at all. You're angry & upset. I think you have to be mature about this. If you have already... Too late, I dread to think what happened.
Personally I think your bro just needs to get married. End of.
 
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