Yeap jannah i never wear rings ever.. even fake ones just incase.
And my bro doesnt tell his freinds or people he meets about me or that i exist so they wont ask "is she single" he doesnt want people to know i exist, and the other day i told him i do not like people he knows thinking we are married, he said why not?
and he likes it becuase no one will bother me!!!!
For example last year we were living below this muslim man, anyway i saw him once and he looked nice, we never spoke. only said salams I used to hear him read quran almost everyday and i would sit and listen to him, i really enjoyed listening to him. And my brother knew him, but he never told him i was his sister, he wanted him to think we were married, living togther at university in the same flat the guy also assumed we were married. He would have been perfect for me, even my dad met him and talked about him alot. But becuase of my brother nothing ever happened. and he moved out 4 months ago and went back home, he lives abroad too. :'(
And me being shy and trying to uphold islamic tradition i didnt stop the guy or talk to him, some days i wish i had just so at least he knew that the man i was living with is actually my brother and not my husband