@Ponderer : Yeah, i guess if he can feel comfortable in himself around the lady, then maybe one can consider that he is feeling in his masculinity(?) i dont know either
@reeldeel: Bro, not trying to understand how to get in touch with the feminine side, trying to understand what it takes to find a lady that can help you further enhance your masculinity minus the bravado and what not.
Unfortunately, i cant provide a link to the video, its part of a site im a member of.
There are however, other videos on YouTube, but it depends entirely whether you want to check them out or not. They've been made specifically for non-muslim men in the dating arena.
One guy talks about how "if you can learn, truly, what it means to be a man, the rest will take care of itself". Its very interesting to watch, provided you can look past the 'dating talk' etc.
I certainly learned from it, but some people might find it vulgar in taste.
Let me know if you want the link anyhow.
@Brising. Welll im not relating to myself specifically, im just curious about the issue, but yes, i know there are men out there , that when they meet certain women that dont feel at ease with their masculinity.
This video was talking about how men dont feel like men anymore and that they actuall feel like 'Warmongers, and dogs' because due to a few bad crop, they've on the whole been made to feel like that by women in general.
It was interesting anyway, and certainly resonated with me for the most part.