Ideal wife? wow i mean if we are going to talk about IDDDEEEALLLs then in that case, how bout a scarlett johannsen who cooks cleans puts out and doesn't talk back and is super religious? that pretty much hits the spot if we are going to talk about IDEAL.
I think we have ideals in different forms. Even between the genders. I don't think there's any denying that men & women look for beauty.
But bro Shah, I guess from what you're looking for is a Muslim version of a Stepford Wife.
Also, surely at times you would want your wife to stand for her rights and speak out? Otherwise, I could imagine married life being very mundane & tedious eventually.