I met a muslim brother a few months ago online. He's very interested in getting married (which of course is my ultimate goal as well). However, there are a few things that bother me about him (and there are several things I like). He appears to have been brought up in a good muslim home. He performs his prayers, fasts etc. He's educated, got a good job. However, in conversations he tends to bring up his desire for a physical relationship. He knows my terms, not until after nikkah. We've been talking on and off for a few months now and last week he admits to me that he had a sexual relationship awhile back and he was ashamed of it. He then goes on to tell me that he wants to be in a relationship were there is some intimacy (holding hands, kissing etc). Again, I told him I am not interested. He said he accepts that. He also bad mouths non-muslims (we've had a disagreement over this before). He's 30, I'm 29. I understand he would want to get married soon because he wants a family and he has intense desires. I am not attracted to him, but I'm worried that I'm not finding the guy I'm looking for so I'm thinking of giving it a chance. Any thoughts?