It would be different if she was a convert, cos all her sins are forgiven, and its not about her being a virgin. I dont have any qualms about marrying a divorcee provided she is right for me, but what this girl did was, as a muslim and out of wedlock.
Like i said, i dont know much about whether she wants to be a better muslim or not. She has a slightly stronger inclination than before it seems, but not by much. I know she regrets what shes done, but whether she has repented, i dont know.
The reason, i had said that she seemed perfect in other ways, because we got on well, she was very open to compromise, which i absolutely adore in a woman, and when i mentiond my islamic ambitions, she seemed to be open to them, but thats not say, she wanted those things for herself, i had my doubts the whole time
Its just dangerous territory is all.