Sister in Islam,
Firstly, my insults to you mean nothing because I am a nobody, just some brother.
Now, in response, i am not interested in marrying a girl that expects me to let her insult me and just take it. Of course I wouldn't fight for every little thing but when I want to respond I will. It's not a matter of maturity, it's a matter of personality. Secondly, you disgust me with your comments about that bf/gf joke. Seriously, your probably worth much more in the sight of Allah than what you saying to me so no need to come down to my level.
And yea, i said I heard from this hadeeth twice from you only, nowhere else. and the quote I gave as well, I only heard it but we should have a habit of double checking things we hear, if they are in the authentic hadeeth books or not.
Advice is good but why don't you try to take some of my advice too? I actually have been considering more seriously what I see as gfood advice of what people have been saying, I just don't post it online:) so shukran.
And again, I don't think it is very "fair" to give the impression that it's okay for a woman to insult a man and he can't respond back. I hope you understand where I am coming from and that you accept my apologize.