Yes thats true, it depends what experinces you have had. But generally the rule is that the younger the more naive the more stuburn and less likely to "mould" to fit with thier husband.
stubborn and rebelious are characteristics that are specific to certain individuals....not everyone is like that.
afterall....The Prophet (SAW) said you are upon the deen of your best friend, if yor spouse isnt your best friend then who is?
theres a certain amoutn of molding both ways, but the older more experienced person suually has the greater affect.