i absolutely would use facebook to judge a person (but only to an extent). as muslimah21 mentioned, most of the things ppl put on facebook r true. but a person is more than their profile, yes even their facebook profile (where some ppl even like to list what they last ate). so its best to use facebook as a starting point. i think its good that he brought it up, because now u guys can discuss these things. and u can find out now if he is the right guy for u, or if u r just wasting ur time with him, because ur views on life r so different from his.