@reeldeel, 1. start going out more to places where they may be some single muslim women, like lectures, community dinners, Eid dinners!. Everybody and their mom comes out for those dinners. You need someone on the inside, your sister, aunt cousin or something who can go with you and approach some sisters. making small talk and getting to know them and then asking them if their single. Then your sis can exchange numbers with the girls, maybe she just made a new friend, maybe she found your future wife?
You never know. When my brother was looking to get married me and my sister would go up to girls that we thought were my brothers type (from what he had told us) all the time. This way you dont have to worry about getting rejected (or slapped). None of the girls were offended and yes they did give me their numbers if they were single and looking. Even if your sis (or whoever) knows your serious to get married and you want her to keep a lookout, if she's involved in the community- goes to a halaqah? in arabic or quran classes? There are other sisters in her class. Get the women in you family involved to actively help you look.
2. Online sites- If a brother has in his profile - he rarely, sometimes, never etc prays, I keep it moving. If he has crap like "very liberal" or no hijab, Im like ok, NEXT. The age and never having been married really bothers me. For example, if he's 33+ and he's never been married, that i s very suspect. What has he been doing all these years? Hmm. Also looks do matter, and if his picture looks crazy, theres not much reason to read his profile. I think guys should smile more in pics. At least have a non smiling pic and a smiling one, so we know you have teeth. If someone has, looking for "friendship, maybe more" or some crap that implies dating and not ready for marriage, again that's a no.