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3bdiAllaah

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oh look! -> a new topic
« on: Jun. 27, 2010, 07:50 AM »

i have a question people

" What are the social factors which you usually think about might be a problem in you getting married "?

we can think about

not-so-understanding parents
society as a whole
finances

etc etc
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smz

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Re: oh look! -> a new topic
« Reply #1 on: Jun. 28, 2010, 02:39 PM »

hmmm... age!!  men (regardless how old they are  ::)) always looking for young wives..  seriously there are lot of good muslim single sisters out there.
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3bdiAllaah

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Re: oh look! -> a new topic
« Reply #2 on: Jun. 30, 2010, 03:58 PM »

yeah age is a problem actually

not all brothers are likely to go for someone whose more than 2-3 years older actually

but i think there must be some real life examples you know

of the likes of kadijah r.a and and brothers following the sunnah

im sure theres got to be some examples, anyone know about any such example?
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jannah

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Re: oh look! -> a new topic
« Reply #3 on: Jun. 30, 2010, 09:16 PM »

salams,

I know of many examples of the wife 1-3 years older. But more than that is the rare case...and usually ppl hide it and you find out about it by accident...
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3bdiAllaah

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Re: oh look! -> a new topic
« Reply #4 on: Jun. 30, 2010, 09:20 PM »

hmn... why do ppl hide it?

well from where i come from yes it makes sense, people are too concerned about what ppl will say if i do this and what if i do that

i thot it would be u knw a bit more common in the middle east or the west for that matter
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