wa alaekumasalam warahmatullaah
yes to most brothers it does, how and why?
the never-before-married ones would not think about such a sister, young brothers like from 18-24 of course would not be inclined because there are a lot of younger unmarried sisters in the community
i think to many brothers it really matters
My observation is that some guys think it's ok for some kind of relationship, but never for ACTUAL marriage.
well thats disturbing and to me it seems these people approach divorced women in an unjust way, and those who have this kinda attitude... well are not real men least to say
Some guys think it's ok as long she is only 2nd or 3rd wife..hmmm or even worse, somehow you're only good enough for a Visa seeker.
haha yeah, i thought this visa seeking stuff was out of fashion these days.. ?
Although, yes it's Sunnah for a bro to take on divorcee etc.. How many guys would actually apply it to their life honestly?
yes tell you what, there *are* some brothers out there who would and are doing this alhamdulilaah
but yes, someone whose never married before and is under 24 would have a different approach because of immaturity and impractical approach towards life
nope not considered to be pitiful at all.
subhan Allaah why would someone consider that?
if someone does theres might be something wrong with their deen Allaahu a'lam
i think the bottom line would be:
there are brothers out there who would and are marrying divorcees, who would overlook that shes been married before and is with kids, and there are young and single brothers out there who would be happy to marry such a sister but these kind of brothers are extremely rare to find due to the spectrum in which they fall
if the brother has deen, thas all what the sister needs because he will fear Allaah s.w.t and will fulfill her rights insha Allaah