hey bro i feel ya... but u know there's gotta be something ur doing wrong there...there are soooo many unmarried girls out there, i can't see why they aren't biting??
do u have special specific requirements?? ie looks/age/weight/color/ethnicity/nationality/etc if you do and most ppl do, if you widen them a little and are a little more flexible it might get easier for u.
on matrimonial websites i would always expect the bros to make the first move, bc a lot of guys don't like it when the girl seems aggressive so i'm not surprised u didn't get any hits.
lastly keep the faith bro... u'll find someone inshaAllah
"i can't see why they aren't biting?" -- Not that I like being bitten (lol, just kidding) ... I seriously donno... You know what is really frustrating? I lived a life of a honest muslim boy in my high school & Uni...though there were numerous opportunities, but never said yes to any girl's offer...you know, I needn't explain...I was afraid of the hell fire and I am not willing to die with a remorse that I did put forward my own will before Allah's will...I may not be sure that I will get heaven but there is no harm in trying, isn't it?!
Coming to the point, now that I am looking forward to be with a female...ho! all the females are running away!!
"do u have special specific requirements??" -- r u kidding?!!! can a beggar be chooser?!
No, honestly I don't have any such stupid requirements...I had a good upbringing and educated in a diverse conditions...all I ask in my wife is that she knows the difference between Deen & dunya...and strives to make life better not only in this world, but (most importantly) hereafter. Now that a very basic requirement every single muslim man searches in a prospective bride...ain't it?
"on matrimonial websites i would always expect the bros to make the first move" -- Okay, my elder cousin sis says any unwanted contact from the male side to chat (singlemuslim.com got chat facility) sound 'creepy' to girls...Allah know what is the exact definition of 'creepy' to girls in this context but I seriously did try to chat on my own...do you what one of girls asked me next?! she asked me "do you own a car?!!" amazing!!:)
I guess I need more time getting used to knowing the human beings living on the other side of the gender divide!!:) And when I am observing them, I always thank Allah that I am a man!!
Thanks for you post, sis!