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Want to marry but do not know could not why?
« on: Aug. 02, 2010, 06:35 AM »

Hi,

If two persons love each others and want to marry but one of them could not due to some social reasons. Then, love should not be sacrificed, but it itself require lot of sacrifices. What would you like to say about it?

Thanks,
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Re: Want to marry but do not know could not why?
« Reply #1 on: Aug. 02, 2010, 07:11 AM »

asalamu alaekum brother,

first thing, love is not haram or anything
but one thing must be kept in mind,
we have to follow the guidelines,

love is not something which should affect your life so much that you leave everything if you cant marry the one you fell i love with.

if you cant marry her, simply forget her.
dont waste her prercious time, she ll easily forget u, women usually do
if you dont want to make her life miserable, dont contact her and leave her alone

get yourself busy with something

if however there is a way, which usualy is not in socially retarded places like the subcontinent
then go for it with all that you have.

but of course everything has a priority, dont mess up your priorities

may Allaah help you
ameen

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Re: Want to marry but do not know could not why?
« Reply #2 on: Aug. 02, 2010, 12:06 PM »

Thanks for good suggestions. She also do not want to marry with other person. Her father also with her. But there are some other persons that do not want this.
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Re: Want to marry but do not know could not why?
« Reply #3 on: Aug. 08, 2010, 08:37 PM »

then the other person has to forget about it.

and get a life. move on or something. it just works like this.
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