I dont agree at all, i know there is one special person for everyone. Yes Aisha and Khadejah were loved dearly by the prophet. But if khdejah had not pssed away he would of not remarried so many women. Before he was content with 'one'.
Respectfully, I disagree. Playing with "what-if's" is (according to various scholars) a form of minor shirk because it's playing with the decree of Allah (swt), and to believe in the qadr of Allah (swt) is an article of faith.
The fact is, Khadija (ra) was destined to pass away, and that was the will of Allah (swt). All the marriages of the Prophet (saw) were already pre-written, long before he was born! And it's the same with us.
Yes, you can hope that there is a special "one" for you, but unfortunately the reality is that we don't get to choose in life. Ask me, I know this well. I'm not in the position I'm in because I wanted to be here... and I fought with everything to avoid this position, but when Allah (swt) has decreed a matter, none can change it.
And that relationship that he had with khaejah is what every woman should have and be intitled too, Basically i want to be someones khadejah.
There's no harm in wishing that, insha'Allah. Make dua ukhti, and insha'Allah you'll get what you desire
Just one thought to bear in mind though, the marriage to the Prophet (saw) was Khadija's third marriage! She was married to two other men before she found her "one"... and she worked hard
for her marriage. I'm not suggesting you wouldn't for yours, but I'm highlighting that she wasn't so beloved to the Prophet (saw) for no reason at all. Everyone knows that she was a very wealthy woman... when the Prophet (saw) used to go to the cave of Hira, and she suspected his food would run out... she didn't send an army of servants to him with more, even though she could easily afford to. She went herself, and climbed the mountain (which is very steep, and very difficult to climb, it takes a couple of hours for the average person). Such was her love and devotion to him... that it's not sufficient for his sustenance to be delivered by just anyone's hand... she wanted his sustenance to be delivered by hers!