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wonderful1980

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I need your advice please
« on: Oct. 01, 2011, 03:53 PM »

I am 31 years Muslim girl and i met a good guy who have good faith in God but the problemis  he is not Muslim ,, he was Chrsitian but now he believe in one God he belive in all the massengers and all holy books he believe what Muslims believe and he love Islam but needs some one to show him Islam ,, he is not Mushrik coz he only beleive in one God in Allah ,, he loves me so much and he wants to marry me and i see him a good guy faithfu andl honest , he wants to learn Islam from me but i cant untill we get married ,, please i need your advice ,, do you think its ok if i marry him i know in Qura'an said we cant marry Mushrik but he is not Mushrik he beleive that Jesus was prophet and he loves all the prophets i mean he belive in Arakan Al Eman and his faith is stronger than me and many muslims i know,,, plz i need your advice ,,, am sooo depress and i pray that you all have happy life ,, thank you so much
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wonderful1980

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Re: I need your advice please
« Reply #1 on: Oct. 06, 2011, 03:32 AM »

why no reply :((
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jannah

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Re: I need your advice please
« Reply #2 on: Oct. 06, 2011, 01:25 PM »

Salam,

I think you know the rule that it is not allowed to marry non-Muslims. Why not teach him more about Islam. There's no reason he can't do this before marriage. He can go to a local Mosque or find other Muslims around him to teach him, through books or even the internet if you are not able to. If he believes in all those things then why isn't he Muslim? If he loves you so much then he'll take the time to learn about your faith because it's important to you. Also let him know you can't marry a non-Muslim.

Having a strong, faithful person for a husband is good, but as a Muslim we know Allah created these laws for us out of wisdom and to protect us. And at the end of the day, your Hereafter is more important.
 
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wonderful1980

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« Reply #3 on: Oct. 07, 2011, 12:45 AM »

you r right ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, thank you sooo much ,, i really appreciate ur advice ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, plz pray for me ,,,,,but  i will do my best to show him Islam ,,,,
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humararishta

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« Reply #4 on: Oct. 17, 2011, 09:02 AM »

If he loves you so much and marry with you so please convert him in From christen to Muslim you before marriage. When he agree to convert in Islam so marry with him i will pray for you.
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wonderful1980

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Re: I need your advice please
« Reply #5 on: Oct. 19, 2011, 10:03 PM »

but he is not Christian ,,,, he believe in one God but not under any relgion ,,,,
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SalwaR

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« Reply #6 on: Nov. 25, 2011, 04:40 PM »

The answer is YES as soon as he reverts. Then he can go to your father, be islamically engaged and marry.

Until then take him to the mosque, to brothers and keep away from him. Inlove.... this word all to often to justify haram relationships. It doesnt ut it im a afraid. People are inlove with animals doesnt mean its acceptable.

Take him to a mosque. Tell him when your muslim then come back to me, here is my fathers, gaurdians, walis number call him. But you should cut off contact.
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tanimtaher

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Re: I need your advice please
« Reply #7 on: Jan. 02, 2012, 01:29 AM »

Salam,
I think it is important that if he accepts Islam, he accepts it wholeheartedly really believing in Allah and in Islam and in Prophet Mouhammad (pbuh). And not just for the sake of marriage.
In the meanwhile, continuing a lover relationship with him is not permissible at all, regardless of what the heart says and what the heart desires. If you love Allah, then you will stay away from him - only then this man will realize that to seek you he needs to seek God first. And when he finds Islam, inshallah may Allah guide him, you can get married to him. Right now he is content being in a non-committed relationship with you - you need to put a barrier so that he is forced to think seriously about the real important issues. And you also need to seriously realize that a relationship outside of marriage displeases Allah our Lord.
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Desi_Beat

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« Reply #8 on: Feb. 26, 2012, 06:39 PM »

If you are good Muslim you may go ahead and decide it without any advice because good Muslim never take any step against Him ? Now all is on you what you think is best for you but just want to remind you anything which will be done without Allah’s permission we never find happiness in that work so think twice.

Give him time and let him accept Islam than you may go ahead and marry him there is no issue but without converting him to Muslim you can’t ?

But don’t let him accept Islam only for getting marry with you let him take his time and feel what Islam is if he will accept it from heart not for marry your life will be most beautiful with out and with full of Allah’s blessing Inshallah.


Thank,
Bilal
Take Good Care of the peoples around you always because you might need their someday
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A_Khn

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Re: I need your advice please
« Reply #9 on: Feb. 27, 2012, 07:13 AM »

Salaam

The best way for him to learn islam is to go to the mosque every evening (day) and learn. He has to engage a madhab, with dedication, this is usually life changing for those who do it.
When he is muslim, he will know what to do next with regards to marriage.
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