Well for a start if the brother doesnt get up for Fajr then he doesnt stand a chance, i think its a relfection of how devoted he is to his deen. SO a lazy brother is nto what i am looking for.
I think the roles set out and which we are given examples in the sunnah i can live by. i mean i do think that men should be out workign while women look after the home and chidlren. And if i get to marry a man who also is in support of that i would happily give up my job. Its rare to find a brother who wants you to stay at home. Its nto a big issue for me, but an added bonus
I do feel strongly about the distinct roles that men and women play in the marriage. i think its absurd at how women think they can do all that men do. Women and men have thier sepreate roles and they are responsible for them. This is how a muslim should be, respect the fact that physically, mentally, and physiologically wise we are different. People try to fight this, fight what allah has created? its madness. But spiritually we are equal.
Make one of the couple cry? what? what i have said? lol. umm i hope not.
Well a man has to consult his wife in what he does. Just look at the prophet SAW and see many examples when he was in difficult times, when he wanted to make a decision etc etc. Men can t just put thier foot down and thats it. thats nto a marriage and thats not even in Islam. A man and wife make compramises, care what the other thinks, and gives each other thier rights. thats islamic marriage for you.