i think blackrose is the only one who still posts anything. everybody else is largely either totally dead or pretty boring.
i think she's pretty cool. i don't know anything about her personal situation. but i think everybody should lay off of her
Thanks Lucid!!! and fozia and all the others who stood up for me!
Like I said I believe I have been posting a wide variety of balance for one person. If you need more balance maybe other people need to post. I post what I think interests others.
Looking at the lesbian post I guess noone can say I dont post variety;) Anyhow I just thought we needed one, atleast one post like this, I wasnt going to post anymore on it.
If you had just deleted the post or asked me too I would have.. But when you say Ive been posting this or that or only this or that its just not true.
I dont get my news from yahoo or cnn
haha Lucid you remember. as you can see I have changed, am a different person.
On the men Im not sure what this has anything to do with all this but I would say I have posted many concerns for the men, just go the brothers section and all the pages. Although its not my responsiblity to do so. From my assessment there has been more brothers showing up and more views and more guests (there usually isnt this many if its not ramadan). this is just from my assesment . Plus men like the news and stuff
on posting honestly my hearts not in it for now. plus this was a place i could have gone to to ask duas to talk bout my problems. but now i feel like i would have to think twice before posting.. even a dua request..thas realy hard bc there really isnt newhere else to go.
and because Im not sure what I would do different because I probly wont do anything different.
Because even if I posted today it would be on 'growing number of children sold in Afghanistan' which I guess is kind of like slavery. and it would be on Iraqi children becoming drug addicts and selling drugs which was nonexistent before the US invaded. So yah these things are depressing but they are the top news of the day. and I was going to post some things on antibiotics, and video on 'healthy marriage' but the news would come first for the day. Ive been trying to stick with 2or 3 new aday
If these are ok then its fine..
Just one you are right. I have become very forthright. I wasnt like that before. It was all on purpose honestly. I could have ignored and kept the peace... somethings I still believe you should ignore. Well after publicly insulting me many times (and im not talking about someone whos not here, he is here lurking) I could have ignored and he would go away eventually but maybe find somebody else.
yah everyone has their moods once in awhile and we should understand that and let things go but if its consistent we need to stand up. not for ourselves for for them. Maybe it was time to stand up, maybe its time we all stand up and stop ignoring. because ignoring is just not the solution.. and people are acting worse and worse (not talking bout u Nuh) maybe sometims people deserve to be stood up including myself. maybe we let people get away with too much.
There should be a study done on this. So girls are standing up for themselves and the consequences. She is told it would have been easier to ignore, and I think maybe this thread wouldnt have come right after if I didnt stand up for myself. Since she defends herself she is being critiqued rather than sympathized with after being insulted
Was it really wrong what I did?. .. So basically maybe we all need to stand up alittle, it might help the communtity be a little better place in the long run.
maybe we need to be alittle firmwhile being nice, maybe we can learn from ea other this way. or maybe the constitutiuon which is a good one should be implemented. .. atleast one warning should be give after the second or third of being insulted, no?
maybe Its time we accept our wrong and apologise. Like if someone tells me. Dont accuse me of this, this is not what I said. then I say your right.. I apologise.. So Im going to apologise to CHEESE because I think I went a little overboard there. Sorry cheese! I should have been nicer..
By the way I apologise to anyone whom I have hurt intentionally or unintentionally. Plz accept my forgiveness:)