but are we not born for a specific purpose and reason?
Unfortunately, it is far too easy to forget about that in this helter skelter world of ours.
There's a quote from the Random quotes section which talks about us sleepwalking through our lives and only really waking up when we die. I always find going to a Janaza helps 'wake' me up a little.
May Allah bless her and have mercy on her and make it easier for her family