We go to Masjid everyday for my kids Quran class. Everyday we mothers sit together either read or talk
Yesterday while we were sitting I heard my 4 year old daughter crying and then my friend's 5 daughter came in and told us that Z is crying because another friend's daughter doenst want to play with her. My daughter was crying pretty badly (she ussually dont cry in public and keep all this excitement for home
) so I went and saw that my baby was holding her face and crying
when I asked her what happened she didnt say anything but another girl said that the 5 year old hit her on the face. I asked maybe it was an accident and the first girl said that no she hit on the face . I just said to the 5 year old not to do this since all of them are friends. I carried my daughter back in the room with me. While on the drive back I was told that this has happened couple of times and that my daughter was hit on the face and got her hair pulled by this 5 year old. Me and her mom are good friends but I dont know how to approach her. The thing is that 5 year old is my friend's youngest and obviously very much dear to her and ofcourse my 4 year old is my youngest and very much dear to me and her Baba
. My husband was furious that I let his baby got hit and didnt say anything to the mother. I am thinking from now onwards I will try to keep my daughter with me or just let her play where I can see . But he thinks I need to say something to the mother since this happened couple of times at the masjid and at other friend's houses. I thought I was done with fighting once my boys were older but I guess not
girls fight too ?
Any pointers if and how should I approach my friend ?
Jazak Allah khair