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« on: Jul 22, 2009 11:49 AM »



Question:  I used to watch nude pictures even I don't like it I can't control myself when I browse.Tell me some Thasbeehs that purify my soul.



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Praise be to Allaah.  

First of all, you have to repent from this great sin, because each person will have to answer for his actions on the Day of Resurrection. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Verily, the hearing, and the sight, and the heart of each of those ones will be questioned (by Allaah)” [al-Israa’ 17:36]  

And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:

“The eye commits zinaa (fornication, adultery), and its zinaa is looking.”

(narrated by al-Bukhaari, al-Isti’dhaan, 5774). So you have to repent sincerely from this action, and that includes several things:  

Giving up this sin, out of fear of the punishment of Allaah.

Deeply regretting what you have done of this haraam thing.

Sincerely resolving not to return to this sin ever again.  

You should know that there are many ways of purifying the soul from these haraam things, such as:

Adhering firmly to repentance, saying a lot of du’aa’, frequently seeking Allaah’s forgiveness and repenting, persisting in dhikr, doing lots of acts of worship and good deeds, and praying a lot. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):  

“Verily, As Salaah (the prayer) prevents from Al‑Fahshaa’ (i.e. great sins of every kind, unlawful sexual intercourse) and Al Munkar (i.e. disbelief, polytheism, and every kind of evil wicked deed)” [al-‘Ankaboot 29:45]  

“And perform As Salaah (Iqaamat as Salaah), at the two ends of the day and in some hours of the night [i.e. the five compulsory Salaah (prayers)]. Verily, the good deeds remove the evil deeds (i.e. small sins)” [Hood 11:114]  

You have to look for a good environment to live in, and for righteous friends who will help you to do good, so that you may keep away from these things. All of these actions will purify and cleanse your soul, and help you to please Allaah. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):  

“Indeed, he succeeds who purifies his own self [his soul]…

Be merciful to those on earth, and the One in the Heavens will be merciful to you.
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« Reply #1 on: Jul 28, 2009 09:15 PM »


as salaamu alaykum,

a few practical suggestions:

- put the computer in a place in the house that is more open and public - ex. the living room or den vs. in a private place with a locked door, which makes it easier to do those things

- try not to use the computer late at night

- try to keep your time on the computer limited - like use it between maghrib and isha only, or at a specific time in the day so that you don't end up spending hours and hours online which gives you more opportunity to go to those websites
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