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« on: Aug 27, 2009 06:31 AM »

i have been married for 1 year and found sex very painful.
im told there is no physical problem. i dont agree with this it is physical pain.
can you advise me what to do, i am having a very hard time right now.

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Oh Allah, Guide us to the Straight Path.

« Reply #1 on: Aug 27, 2009 04:02 PM »

Asalamualaikum wrt wb,

All praise be to Allah.

Perhaps some of the sisters can give you personal advice, but I would suggest in general that you and your husband try to build a better relationship together by sitting together and having ta'leem, and ask your husband to teach you about Islam, and try to learn and spend time together doing beneficial acts.  

Your husband should be educated about following the Sunnah and being gentle and spending time with his wife, and to seek to let her fulfill her needs also.  This is what Islam teaches us.

If you are not suffering a physical problem and cannot reslove this issue, do not hesitate to speak to a professional Muslim counselor who can help guide you.  

May Allah make it easy for you.

And Allah knows best.

Be merciful to those on earth, and the One in the Heavens will be merciful to you.
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