// A Sister going Astray?
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« on: Aug 09, 2011 07:01 AM »

Dear all,

I need your help. I have a friend who is having a relationship before marriage and she is regreting what she is doing. I know that it is wrong in the first place do such an evil deed but I was wondering if you could help me and give some advices on how to help her in how to come back on the straight path.

Thank you all very much.

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« Reply #1 on: Aug 09, 2011 08:53 AM »

I feel bad for her. May Allah guide her and help her. The only thing you can do is be there for her as a constant reminder. But only as long as it doesn't affect your own imaan. The thing is, I don't think you can help her out of the relationship unless she wants to herself. What is likely to happen is that it could disrupt your value of chastity. So I'd be careful if I were you.
« Reply #2 on: Aug 09, 2011 10:35 AM »

Tell her to get married to the guy she is doing Harram stuff with, that would make the stuff she does with him Hallal.

That is if he is Muslim.
If he isn't, tell her to tell him to become Muslim.
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« Reply #3 on: Aug 09, 2011 07:02 PM »


is this really you or really a friend of yours? i'll assume it's your friend since this was anonymous.

anyhow, i have to agree with "moderatesufi" for once. i think there's a hadith that says the best thing for two lovers is marriage.

you as a friend can't make her stop anything, and she seems to know it's haram and is continuing so not likely she's going to stop regardless of what you say to her. encourage her to seek out an imam and get some advice on how to make everything halal inshaAllah.


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