3. Users can login as hidden users so no one can see when they are online. We had this option in the past and ppl used it weirdly but we'll try it again.
4. Users can change their display name. Because of abuse in the past this was turned off but we'll see how it goes
(sisters-only and brothers-only boards remain completely hidden and are only open to a sis or bro who has registered and posted an introduction)
Dont worry, i'll behave this time ;-)