Its easy for you to say that, but for the girl, some jobless person from half way around the world wanting to marry her is scary.
you could be a homeless, mentally disabled person with flatulence problems, and you'd still be way up and everybody's lists.
sister jannah's references of course!. all jannah has to do is give is the slightest of nods of approval, and fears of your dodginess, FOBiness, curry smelling breath and smelly socks (FOBs have only 1 pair of socks, so they never change them), and lack of moneyness will dissapate faster than you can say "jannah, save me!"
so take the plunge. when the girl asks, "who the %U*&^ are you?" just say: "talk to jannah and the folks on madinah" and all will be sorted out.
what are you waiting for?