Women who date guys don't necessarily end up married to them either, people always present a front till they think they have you, then the the real person comes out. The way we do it we check out the guys back ground whether he is involved in the community what he's like, what his family is like then you talk to him and meet him and trust in Allah.
There's only so much you can learn about a person you'll never know them properly till you're married to them.
The main thing is your both roughly coming from the same point, have the same goal and similar ideas of how to achieve that goal.
People change constantly thro life. Dating does not mean you will know the guy any better than if your we're formally introduced and met only under chaperoned conditions prior to marriage.
We don't touch unrelated males full stop.
She really thinks these guys she has platonic relationships wouldn't jump at the chance to go out with her?