I have a problem. I recently have begun to enjoy watching Islamic videos, which I never really liked before. However, my family are good friends with one of the more well-known scholars who addresses youth in these videos. I know that in his personal life he treated his first wife rather shamefully, by going behind her back to marry another much younger woman, and subsequently some of the religious women in my family heavily dislike him.
I realized that my subsequent personal dislike of him meant that I can't really enjoy these videos. How do I get rid of my grudge against him?