LOL...no body actually replied to the original question..which I think was pretty innocent.
My question is, do the siblings get to go too?
May be the fact that women are shown mercy by Allah for bearing with the loss of a child she was expecting and eventually losing it along with volumes of blood and health,at times almost facing death,is bothering many here.
It sure does not give a woman a license to commit crimes in future...but it would have been better to answer the original question no?
I do not know the answer though(honestly).But I do not think siblings get that opportunity.All have to obey Allah,face trials,be patient and repent.And if the sibling's emotions too were involved,then he/she will be rewarded for the patience.
This reminds me of a hadeeth-"Whenever a Muslim is afflicted with a hardship, sickness, sadness, worry, harm, or depression --even a thorn's prick, Allah expiates his sins because of it."