I know that bad actions of children before the age of puberty are not recorded and the good ones are but are the actions of them already "planned"? Please I need to know as I am 32 yrs old and still struggle with actions as a child and they are bothering me. Is there then no way that these would have been avoided?
Also, I am suffering with a relapse of my anxiety disorder, is this also part of "Divine Decree" that Allah has planned for this to happen to me?
I htink that illness is a purification, punishment or a trial. Which one of them it actually is IMO (until I learn better) belongs to "ilm ul ghayb" or the unseen, which we do not have the keys of knowledge to. So the situation is ambiguous, and this is part of our trial in life.
In surah Mulk we are told that life and death were created as to be trials for our deeds, and elsewhere that "saqina" or tranquiility was sent upon the believers, so thats something to aspire to!